Season 1 Podcasts & Show Notes

Season 1 Episode 1: Who We Are

This is a drawing of Nicole Kubilus and Bret Thayer facing each other with geometric designs in the background.

Our first episode! In this episode we explain what the Understanding Autism Podcast is about and what we hope to contribute to the community’s understanding of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 1

Season 1 Episode 2: What is Autism?

How is autism defined? What impact do these definitions have on the neurodiverse community and how we understand autism? In this episode we explore the how the definition of autism impacts how we view this condition and those on the spectrum.

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Season 1 Episode 3: Eye Contact

Nicole's self portrait drawing shows the anxiety behind maintaining eye contact

Why are some people on the spectrum uncomfortable with making eye contact? In this episode, we explore some of the reasons behind this and how to support those who struggle with making eye contact.

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Season 1 Episode 4: Stimming & Fidgeting

This is a drawing of a woman in stress with stimming toys around her

Many people with autism stim or fidget. In this episode we breakdown the causes of this behavior and its importance to those on the spectrum.

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Season 1 Episode 5: Meltdowns, Shutdowns & Self-Harming Behavior

Illustration of a girl holding her hands on her head as if in pain from an emotional meltdown.

Some of the more alarming autistic behaviors for parents and caregivers are meltdowns, shutdowns, and self-harming behaviors. In Part 1 of this episode we explore what these behaviors are and why they may occur.  In Part 2 of this episode Nicole shares her experiences as an adult. We also offer some advice for managing these behaviors for teachers, parents, and autistic people in the workplace.

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 5

UAP Episode 5: Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Self-Harming Behaviors Part 1
UAP Episode 5 Part 2: Meltdowns, Shutdowns, and Self-Harming Behaviors

Season 1 Episode 6: Sensory Processing Disorder

Some autistic people are highly sensitive to the world around them. Textures, sights, sounds, noises, and smells, can lead to overwhelm, and in some cases, physical pain. In Part 1 of this episode we explore the reasons behind Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), its impacts, and assessments that can help. In Part 2 of this episode, we explore treatments for SPD and how SPD impacts socializing for those on the spectrum. Finally, we look at some resources for adults who experience SPD.

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 6

UAP Episode 6: Sensory Processing Disorder Part 1
UAP Episode 6 Part 2: Sensory Processing Disorder

Season 1 Episode 7: Fixations & Special Interests

Here a woman is hyper focused on her laptop computer. A series of triangles are moving from her eyes to the screen.

One characteristic of autistic people is that they can develop a strong fixation on a topic or special interest, often at the expense of other tasks. Is this healthy? Why does this occur more among autistic people than with neurotypical people? What if these fixations are dangerous? In this episode, we explore these questions.

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Season 1 Episode 8: Perseverations

This is a drawing of a girl with sharp geometric shapes covering her face and head.

Some autistic people experience the feeling of being ‘stuck’. This can manifest itself in the form of thinking patterns, speech, and body movements. In this episode we examine what perseveration is and tips on how manage this experience.

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Season 1 Episode 9: Low Frustration Tolerance

This is a drawing of a woman who is sitting behind a table with her hands on her head in frustration. Jagged lines extend from her head and her intense eyes convey her frustration.

A common challenge that many autistic people face is tolerating unpleasant or stressful situations. In Part 1 of this episode, we will explore the signs and causes of low frustration tolerance and what can be done to build tolerance around frustrating situations. In Part 2 of this episode, we will discuss how low frustration tolerance impacts teachers and classrooms, how to support neurodiverse students, and how employers and employees can work through low frustration tolerance in the workplace. 

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 9

UAP Season 1 Episode 9: Low Frustration Tolerance Part 1
UAP Season 1 Episode 9 Low Frustration Tolerance Part 2

Season 1 Episode 10: Object Permanence & Working Memory

This is a drawing of a woman who is thinking about she placed her important objects. Above her head are images of a cell phone, car keys, and her wallet.

As an autistic person, are you someone who constantly misplaces objects and lose your cool when you’re trying to find it? In this episode we examine why object permanence and working memory are such challenges for people with autism and what can be done to address it.

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Season 1 Episode 11: Autism and Masking

This is a series of three drawings in which a woman is clutching her head, covering her eyes, and biting her arm.

People with autism often experience bullying at school or stigmatization at work. That’s why many people on the spectrum ‘mask’ their autistic behaviors from neurotypical people. In this episode we explore the reasons behind masking, the physical and mental health consequences of masking, and the benefits of unmasking.

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Season 1 Episode 12: Transition Stress

Drawing of a woman with one outstretched arm being segmented into pieces as she is trying to talk away

Managing transitions can be extremely frustrating for neurotypical people as well as those on the autism spectrum. In this episode we explore why change creates stress, how this may manifest into resistance to change, and some solutions around managing the stress around transitions.

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Season 1 Episode 13: Autism and Phobias

Many people can suffer from phobias but how exactly are autistic people impacted by phobias and what are some methods to cope with them? In this podcast we explore causes of phobias and some strategies on how to manage and overcome them.

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Season 1 Episode 14: Emetophobia

This is a drawing of a woman who is trying not to vomit. There are sharp angular lines going to her stomach and to her neck

While many of us struggle with phobias that impact our lives, emetophobia, or fear of vomiting, can be extremely debilitating. In this episode, Nicole shares her personal experience with this phobia and the strategies she used to overcome it.

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Season 1 Episode 15: An Autistic’s Relationship to Food

Many people on the spectrum struggle with food. What might look like picky eating habits to the neurotypical person, is actually an autistic person’s complex relationship with food. In this episode, we explore what causes ‘picky eating’, what diets that people with autism adopt, food and social gatherings, and resources for those who struggle with food.

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Season 1 Episode 16: Autism and Anxiety

This is a drawing of a woman leaning against a wall and experiencing severe anxiety

Anxiety is a common occurrence for all of us, but how does a person on the spectrum experience anxiety? In this episode, we will do a deep dive on Nick Dubin’s book: Asperger’s Syndrome and Anxiety. We will also explore the link between autism and anxiety and focus on autistic experiences with anxiety.

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Season 1 Episode 17: Autism and Depression

Depression can be a real concern for many of us especially around the holidays, but how do people on the spectrum experience depression? In this episode we explore the causes, experiences, and treatments for autistic people and depression.

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Season 1 Episode 18: Autism and Perfectionism

Perfectionism, or the tendency to demand flawless behavior or performance, is a challenge many with autism struggle with. In this episode, we examine the root causes of perfectionism, how perfectionism impacts those with autism, and some generally recommended solutions for addressing perfectionism.

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Season 1 Episode 19: Autism and Shaming

Neurodiverse people often know they are different and that they may stand out from neurotypical people. But how does society treat those that are different? This episode explores the sensitive issue around shame, stigma and the resulting trauma that can occur. We also review examples of shame informed therapy.

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Season 1 Episode 20 and 21: Autism and Suicide Ideation

In this episode we explore the sensitive topic of suicide. How does autism impact suicidal thoughts? What social and cultural factors might contribute to thoughts of suicide? Nicole shares her own struggles with this topic and shares resources and strategies that helped her overcome thoughts of suicide.

In Episode 21, we interview licensed social worker and QPR Gatekeeper Instructor, Katelyn Szymanski on the research and advocacy work she has done around suicide awareness and prevention for the neurodiverse community in Maryland.  

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 20 & 21

UAP Season 1 Episode 20: Suicide Ideation
UAP Season 1 Episode 21: Interview With Katelyn Szymanski on Suicide Ideation

Season 1 Episode 22: Season 1 Retrospective

This is a drawing of Nicole Kubilus and Bret Thayer facing each other with geometric designs in the background.

In this, our final episode of season 1, we reflect on how we managed to create the Understanding Autism Podcast. In Part 1, we explore our journey from what started as an idea, to content creation, to the technical aspects of putting a podcast together. In Part 2, we discuss the recording and editing process, what makes our podcast unique, offer advice for first time podcasters, and preview our ideas for season 2.

UAP Show Notes Season 1 Episode 22

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UAP Season 1 Episode 22: Our Retrospective Part 1
UAP Season 1 Episode 22: Our Retrospective Part 2